So is it too soon to decide that I don't want to be a teacher anymore and instead want go back to school to get my translation degree? :) I guess things aren't really quite to that level yet, but it has definitely been a very stressful past couple of days. Things continue to improve at school, but not as fast or as consistently as I would like them to. The kids can be really fun; they just don't know when to STOP TALKING. I seriously ask them to be quiet at least 12390813298742 times a day. I've been putting a lot more time and effort into things thinking that maybe I wasn't well enough prepared and that's why things were more complicated than I had expected. I know I'm a brand new teacher and have a lot to learn (and realistically I could probably spend 12 hours a day a school and still have things to do) but I don't want want work to control everything I do here in Mexico. Gina and I are almost always the first teachers to arrive to school and quite often I'm one of the last to leave. The Mexican teachers get there approximately 5 minutes before the bell rings and they are out the door about as fast as their students are. I'm working on creating a balance but still letting myself have fun and enjoy my time here.
Overall, I have still been managing to have a lot of fun. Last Friday, we went out to a club called Tornado. It was a bar full of people dancing to norteno music. Us gringas definitely stuck out but we had a lot of fun dancing the night away yet again. On Saturday, we went to La Cantinita to celebrate Gina's Birthday. It was a bar/restaurant that was decorated in a very Mexican style. We ate dinner around 9 (including some ridiculously hot peppers, probably the hottest I've ever eaten in my life) and then later in the night, there was a live band. It was a very relaxed but fun atmosphere. Sunday Gina, Natalie, and I went to Gina's boyfriend, Chava's baseball game. It was a lot of fun except we neglected to put on sunscreen and got a bit fried. This week Tuesday, I went to a Santos (the soccer team of Torreon) game. It was an exposition game against the original Santos players from the '83-'84 team. It was the team's 25 anniversary to there was also a mariachi band, a famous singer here in Mexico (I forgot his name) and fireworks. It was a lot of fun, and I was glad I risked going out on a "work night" to see it. Then on Wednesday, a few of us went to a free Belanova concert at the local baseball stadiums. Belanova is a very popular band in Mexico and it was again an awesome opportunity that I couldn't pass up.
Those of you reading this are probably thinking how contradictory things are sounding. First, I'm complaining about horrible my life is and how I'm continually stressed out, and then I'm commenting on how many awesome events I've gone to in the past week. To help you understand a little bit more how stressful things can be, I'll give a more detailed account of my day yesterday. I woke up at 6 in order to be at school by 7am. I prepared everything for the day and had the classroom ready when the bell rang at 7:50. Then, I was off to pick up my kids from lineup and guide them back to the classroom. The rest of the day (8:00 - 2:15) consisted of me continually asking my students to be quiet, pay attention, and follow directions. I did have a half hour break from 10:50 - to 11:20 but during that time I had kids in from recess for detention so it wasn't much of a break at all. Then, after school I spent time correcting papers and entering grades into the grade book. Finally, at 3:45 I decided I needed a break so I headed home for 45 minutes until 4:30 when I had to be back at school for my reinforcement/tutoring sessions. My tutoring sessions went until 6:30 and then I headed back to my classroom to work on more grades/Friday folders that I send home with students. At 8:00 pm I had a informational meeting with all the students parents. I introduced myself, explained the classroom rules and procedures, and answered any questions parents might have had. At 9:15pm, I was finally ready to leave school and be done for the night. I had more student work I could've corrected, but decided a 14 hour day was long enough for me.
Slowly but surely I'm getting into the routine of things. It's still difficult to get up in the morning and go to work, but hopefully that will continue to get better as time goes on. I'm having a lot of fun and enjoying the company of everyone I live with and everyone I continue to meet. I decided to not to go to Monterrey this weekend to see my friend Oscar (from Puebla) play football, but am counting down the days until September 13th when we have a 4 day weekend because of Mexican Independence Day. I again apologize for not keeping in better touch with everyone, but am still hoping you'll cut me some slack since I'm dealing with so many new adjustments. Make sure to keep me updated about what is going on in the states!! Cuidense mucho!!!